This is the first choice you make, and it determines the rest: the price, how much time it takes, and how discreet the whole thing is. Both options have a clear profile.
Private hosting
You go to them, usually an apartment or studio set up for it.
- Advantage: cheaper, because there is no travel time in the rate. The location is set up for discretion: separate entrance, parking, shower on site.
- Advantage: you know the location is real. Anyone hosting at a fixed address has a reputation to lose.
- Drawback: you have to get there, and your car is parked somewhere.
- Drawback: less suitable if you live in a small municipality where you know everyone.
See who hosts privately, or go straight to Antwerp, Ghent or Hasselt.
Escort
They come to you: at home, at a hotel, or at an agreed address.
- Advantage: maximum comfort, you do not have to go anywhere.
- Advantage: a hotel room is the most anonymous option there is — see escorts who visit hotels.
- Drawback: more expensive, and you need a suitable place.
- Drawback: meeting at home means someone has your address.
See all escorts or by city, for example Leuven or Bruges.
The in-between options
- Car date: short, in the car, somewhere quiet. Cheapest and quickest, but the least comfortable.
- Dinner date: dinner first. Expect at least two hours and book well ahead.
- Virtual: no location, no travel, completely anonymous. For many people the first step.
One more thing
Whatever you choose: agree the location beforehand, not on the way. An address passed on at the last moment is normal and sensible; an address that changes three times is not.
