Erotic massage is for many people the gentlest way to start. No performance pressure, no complicated arrangements, but undivided attention. Except that "erotic massage" is an umbrella term covering techniques with little to do with one another.
Classic erotic massage
A full-body relaxation massage that ends erotically. Usually an hour, usually with oil. The variant offered everywhere and the best choice if you do not yet know what you want. Search for massage with happy ending.
Body-to-body
The masseur or masseuse uses their whole body rather than only their hands. Plenty of oil, plenty of skin contact. See body-to-body massage.
Nuru
The Japanese variant of body-to-body, with an odourless seaweed-based gel on a special inflatable mattress. More slippery than oil and considerably more intense. It needs a properly equipped room, so you will mostly find it at fixed addresses — see nuru massage.
Tantra
The exception in this list. Tantra is not aimed at coming as quickly as possible but at building and holding arousal, with breathing and pace as the instruments. Often takes an hour and a half to two hours. People generally find it wonderful or completely pointless — rarely anything in between. See tantra massage, or specifically lingam (focused on the man) and yoni (focused on the woman).
Prostate massage
Internal massage of the prostate, often combined with a handjob. Requires trust and a masseuse who knows what she is doing. See prostate massage.
Where to find it
Availability concentrates in the larger cities: Antwerp, Ghent, Bruges, Hasselt and Leuven. In smaller municipalities the choice is thinner, but many masseuses travel — the city page automatically also shows the profiles within driving distance.
Practical
- Shower beforehand. At most addresses you can do so on site.
- Say beforehand what you want and what you do not want touched. A good masseuse asks anyway.
- An hour is the minimum for tantra and nuru. Half an hour of nuru does not really exist.
